For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal

For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)2 Corinthians 10:4 Kings (KJV)

You are first and foremost a spiritual person. Therefore, your weapons of warfare are in the spirit realm. 

Whatsoever is confronting you locate it spiritually and depend entirely on the Holy Spirit to guide you in your response.

“Afflicted city, storm-battered, unpitied:…  If anyone attacks you,  don’t for a moment suppose that I sent them And if any should attack,  nothing will come of it. I create the blacksmith who fires up his forge and makes a weapon designed to kill. I also create the destroyer— But no weapon that can hurt you has ever been forged. Any accuser who takes you to court will be dismissed as a liar. This is what God’s servants can expect. I’ll see to it that everything works out for the best.”   God’s Decree.” Isaiah 54:11-17 (MSG)

Let your eyes of understanding be opened to the facts of who you are in Christ Jesus.

Do not just treat this issue as an ordinary person and seeking the solution from social media or google.

“For although we live in the natural realm, we don’t wage a military campaign employing human weapons, using manipulation to achieve our aims. Instead, our spiritual weapons are energized with divine power to effectively dismantle the defenses behind which people hide.” 2 Corinthians 10:3-4  (TPT)